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Boys Don't Cry

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A young transgender man explores his gender identity and searches for love in rural Nebraska. From TMDB

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  • DEAD TEENAGERS out now in paperback @judedoyle.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 5, 2026

    "Boys Don't Cry:" A very important if flawed movie, historically speaking, and also personally responsible for pushing every Millennial trans man's transition back by about 15 years

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  • Maddie Chthonia @maddiequestions.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 24, 2024

    Possibly the most widely known movie like this was about Brandon Teena, a trans man, called Boys Don't Cry. And the filmmaker very much altered the facts for the film to minimize Brandon's transness. it was more about cis people's feelings about the murders than it was about Brandon himself.

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  • Solomon "THE VALUE OF A HEARTBEAT" Skalozub @sollizyy.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 10, 2026

    Boys Don't Cry isn't a bad movie, I understand that it's important to trans film history (though I don't think any trans people were involved in making it) but it is so often the first story about a trans man that newly out/closeted trans men see Which is actually not great

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  • Machine Pun Kelly @kellyscaletta.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 10, 2025

    "Corrective rape" is literally trying to rape someone straight, or to punish them by raping. The movie "Boys Don't Cry" was about Brandon Teena, a trans man who was a victim of "corrective rape,' before he was murdered.

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  • Corvid Dallas Multipass (he/him)(it/its) 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️ @genuscorvidae.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 17, 2026

    I can still see his every feature. He was so cool for the three seconds the camera panned to him. Then the movie came out. I was working at a grocery store that has a small VHS rental section. I watched every movie that came in. It was 2000. I rented Boys Don't Cry. I rented it EIGHT TIMES.

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  • Fiona Turner @fifi65.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 5, 2026

    #DavidsMonthOfMusic #MusicChallenge #MusicSky Day 6 - A song with the same title as a book, film or tv show The Cure - Boys Don't Cry

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  • Bruce LaBruce @brucelabruce.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 22, 2025

    HBD superlesbian Christine Vachon, the prolific independent film producer known for her work w/ directors like Todd Haynes and Larry Clark, BOTD in 1962, turning 63 today. Her extensive filmography includes acclaimed films like Kids, Boys Don't Cry, Far from Heaven, and Carol

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  • Assigned Media @assignedmedia.orgBluesky · Aug 13, 2024

    The first trans man I ever heard of was Brandon Teena, the murder victim from that Boys Don't Cry movie. Then basically no others until Chaz Bono.

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  • Solomon "THE VALUE OF A HEARTBEAT" Skalozub @sollizyy.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 22, 2026

    I LOVE this movie. I have a massive soft spot for it bc early transition I got exposed to Boys Don't Cry, which fucked me up, but by comparison, this was such a sweet trans story, and I think it added a hopefulness to being trans that early 20s me needed to see.

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  • J.I.M.B.R.O.W.S.K.I. @peaceandcheese.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 17, 2025

    This reminds me of the film Boys Don't Cry which I got sick to my stomach while watching. I don't ever wanna see that movie again & I don't wanna hear that this wasn't a hate crime. Only hate would cause some1 to torture, sexually assault & dismember a human being. We lift your name, Sam Nordquist .

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  • Justin @nerdliness.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 22, 2026

    Boys Don't Cry. Best movie folks she see exactly once and never again.

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  • WomanToday @womantoday.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 19, 2025

    1/ Kimberly Ane Peirce (born September 8, 1967) is an American filmmaker, best known for her debut feature film, Boys Don't Cry (1999), which won Hilary Swank her first Academy Award for Best Actress.

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  • MidCenturyCinema @midcenturycinema.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 18, 2025

    HDB Chloë Sevigny!! MCCT5 5)Zodiac (Fincher) 4)Melinda and Melinda (Allen) (3)Demonlover (Assayas) 2)Boys Don't Cry (Peirce) 1)Last Days of Disco ( @whitstillman.bsky.social More: @annebillson.bsky.social: www.theguardian.com/film/2024/no... HW Vail: www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/20...

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  • Chain of Flowers @craigatcof.bsky.socialBluesky · Jun 2, 2026

    The Cure's Boys Don't Cry is used in new He-Man film. "Even Adam outside his He-Man persona has an '80s theme. Reflecting his softer side, The Cure's "Boys Don't Cry" plays over a montage of him failing to fit in on Earth."

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  • sel 🏴‍☠️ @spinsterism.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 12, 2025

    Introduce yourself using only one food you refuse to eat, one movie you'll never watch again, and one song you can't stand. Oysters Boys Don't Cry* I Kissed A Girl† * It was brilliant but devastating † The Katy Perry one, not the Jill Sobule one (RIP)

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  • Jamie S. Bowen - Harris Democrat they/he/she @jamiesbowen.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 1, 2025

    THIS!! Most LGBTQ+ & Black people Already Knew this. For those cis-het white people who don't believe it, I have a couple assignments for you. Go watch the movie Boys Don't Cry. Yes, yes, it was made 25yrs ago. Still relevant! TW: omfg violence/rape/slurs..

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  • Matthew St.Clair @mattstclair92.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 9, 2025

    Trivial Oscar fact I just remembered: If Demi Moore wins Best Actress, she'll be the 10th performer to win an acting Oscar for a female-directed film after: Marlee Matlin (CHILDREN..LESSER GOD) Holly Hunter/Anna Paquin (THE PIANO) Hilary Swank (BOYS DON'T CRY) (cont.)..

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  • 🫧🐝 BlissBee 🐝🫧 @blissb33.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 5, 2025

    It didn't. It sucks that precautions have to be taken, but I come from the Boys Don't Cry (movie) era, and I always advise young people and people who are still dating to be cautious. I don't think it's victim shaming to say "it's dangerous out there, be careful"!

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  • DefilerWyrm | Tom @defilerwyrm.artBluesky · Nov 24, 2024

    Yup. When I started figuring myself out at age 26 in 2009, I'd never HEARD of trans men before, & the only movie with one was Boys Don't Cry, in which a cis woman plays a real-life trans man who was gang-raped and murdered when outed. Plus HRT & GAS weren't covered by insurance bc there was no ACA.

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  • Rackletang 🧌🦇🕷️ @rackletang.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 19, 2025

    A whole lot of people missed the film Boys Don't Cry (or the case it was based on) and it shows. (NOTE: cIf you already understand that *all* trans people are vulnerable to violence you do NOT need to go through watching it, but if you deny it I wanna Ludovico your ass in front of it)

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  • not anymore said knife horse @inlovewithnight.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 18, 2025

    the movie Boys Don't Cry. I know it's strongly disliked now but at the time it really opened my mind and made me think about a lot of things. I was in high school, took myself to see it after reading about it in Entertainment Weekly.

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  • Schlockluster Video @schlocklustervideo.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 13, 2026

    On September 13, 1999, Boys Don't Cry was screened at the Toronto International Film Festival.

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  • David Hollingsworth 🏳️‍🌈 @daveyh39.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 8, 2026

    Happy Birthday to the incredible Peter Sarsgaard, Emmy-nominated actress of stage, film, and television actor, celebrated for roles in BOYS DON'T CRY, KINSEY, JARHEAD, ELEGY, AN EDUCATION, OPRHAN, LOVELACE, BLUE JASMINE, DOPESICK, PRESUMED INNOCENT, and on stage in UNCLE VANYA, HAMLET, and more.

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  • Tess Gibson @tessrow.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 4, 2025

    Why are some people saying "There were no trans people before 10 years ago?" Are they completely culturally illiterate? Did they misunderstand "Killer Queen" by Queen as being about Elizabeth II? Have they never heard of the movie "Boys Don't Cry"? Did they miss every day of history class?

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  • MantaHunk 🌎🏳️‍🌈☮️🟧 @mantahunk.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 13, 2025

    I remember. I also remember the movie Boys Don't Cry. Powerful.

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  • Lane Smith 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🤘🏻🖤🔥 @leftlanesmith.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 11, 2025

    "Boys Don't Cry" was my first ever exposure to any trans guy character at all, in a college film class, but he was discussed as simply "a lesbian in disguise" so I didn't see myself in him. Not having any mirror for who I was was a pretty serious obstruction; I was suicidal until my 40s.

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  • Kay @revelintheblue.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 3, 2025

    20 movies Choose 20 films that have stayed with you or influenced you. One film per day for 20 days, in no particular order. No explanations, no reviews, just an image. 2. Boys Don't Cry #FilmSky #Movies #20moviechallenge

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  • GodJester @godjester.bsky.socialBluesky · May 22, 2026

    Name 10 movies you've seen on the big screen (original or re-release): Ex Machina Godzilla Logan WALL-E Spider-Man The Simpsons Movie The Matrix Boys Don't Cry Million Dollar Baby Midsommar

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  • Solomon "THE VALUE OF A HEARTBEAT" Skalozub @sollizyy.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 22, 2025

    Boys Don't Cry is an important movie to trans history ofc, I just have a complicated relationship with it

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  • Gary Mundy @garymundy99.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 13, 2025

    Even More Films Big Boys Don't Cry (2020). Directed by Steve Crowhurst This is a grim tale starring Michael Socha, surely one of the UK's best actors. He plays Paul Connolly, on whose book the film is based. We flash back to his time at a children's home where he and others were abused. Grim.

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  • Jason @greedyrunner.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 7, 2025

    I learned of Brandon's murder from the movie, Boys Don't Cry. The Norm MacDonald meme rings a bell, but I had no idea of its hateful origin.

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  • Stefan Ellison @mrcoat.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 1, 2025

    Added This Week: Leap of Faith, That Night, Boys on the Side, Empire Records, Breaking Up, The Horse Whisperer, The Out-of-Towners (1999), Boys Don't Cry, Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius Plus a lot of Canadian movies I can't fit in this post. letterboxd.com/mrcoat/list/...

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  • Stoned Feminist 👻 Spooky Version @ladylinds.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 19, 2025

    I saw the movie Boys Don't Cry when it came out.

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  • Stefan Ellison @mrcoat.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 16, 2025

    Something unusual I noticed today: The Oscar-winning movie "Boys Don't Cry" is suddenly unavailable everywhere. Either Searchlight/Disney has lost the rights or some music rights issues have popped up.

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  • BlueskyDawn @blueskydawn.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 30, 2025

    Choose 20 movies that stayed with you or influenced you. No explanations, no reviews, just pictures. Day 4/20 - Boys Don't Cry (1999) #FilmSky 🎥📽 #MovieSky #moviechallenge

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  • Leah Marilla Thomas @leahmarilla.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 4, 2024

    When I was 16 years old, I attended a (highly controversial in the state of North Carolina 💁‍♀️) film series on gender and sexuality. We watched Ma Vie en Rose and Boys Don't Cry. I went into that room not knowing what transgender meant. I left with a better understanding than SO MANY PEOPLE it's WILD.

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  • Wayne @shakesfirst.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 7, 2024

    Boys Don't Cry. Great movie, but it's terrible because sad and angry. I really can't watch it again.

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  • Joshua Keep @jekeep.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 17, 2024

    I rewatch a lot of movies, but some of the most influential on me I have never and probably will never see more than once. Like Possum, absolute masterful horror around CSA. Don't know that I could bear a second watching. Boys Don't Cry. Come And See, the greatest war film ever made.

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  • Molotovsky @grifftheimpaler.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 1, 2026

    Kimberly Peirce, among others, talked about stuff like that in "This Film Is Not Yet Ratedl regarding "Boys Don't Cry." They got an NC-17 rating because Chloe Sevigny wiped her lips after performing oral sex on Hillary Swank. But soon after Swank being beaten to death was not a problem.

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  • Brian Flota @brianflota.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 13, 2025

    1999 hand's down best movie year of my adult life. Also saw Magnolia, eXistenZ, Fight Club, Election, Boys Don't Cry, Ghost Dog, The Insider, Office Space, and Galaxy Quest in the theater that year.

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  • Pixie Thinks🧚🏽‍♀️ @pixiethinkss.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 10, 2025

    -For Colored Girls -Boys Don't Cry -This movie I watched on Netflix in like 2016 that I can't remember but their was a scene so egregious I'm still mad about it.

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  • Skellan-ton (they/he) @stelsadick.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 3, 2025

    Insert a movie into another movie The Lost Boys Don't Cry

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  • WomanToday @womantoday.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 19, 2025

    9/ With help from the Sundance Institute's Filmmakers, Writers and Producers Labs in 1997, Peirce completed the feature film in 1999. Upon its release, Boys Don't Cry became one of the most acclaimed and talked about films of the year.

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  • Rachel Nelson @rachelnevada.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 6, 2025

    The very dark and controversial movie Boys Don't Cry is sort of what brought this problem into cis public consciousness. While Kimberley Pierce earnestly based the film on the true story of trans man Brandon Teena, the movie drew a lot of controversy by casting Hilary Swank as the lead. (mtc...)

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  • Sandy Ernest Allen @sandyernestallen.bsky.socialBluesky · May 25, 2025

    Again, Disclosure says all this but hence you often have cis men portraying trans women on screen, perpetuating bullshit thus. You have a comparative ignoring, generally, of trans men. Save for...that's right, Boys Don't Cry—a movie about a trans man killed for existing, based on real life. Cool.

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  • /ˈdaɪ̯nɐ/ @eratuyo.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 3, 2025

    Right, but I think giving her a second Oscar without having a critical acclaimed performance in a film after Boys Don't Cry was a choice... But it's true, it's mostly a “one and done” for the majority of the nominees and winners.

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  • queer autumn @wyrdautumn.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 11, 2024

    Trans women are demonized, trans men are invisibilized. The first time most people in the general public ever heard of the idea of a trans man was witb "Boys Don't Cry" in the 90s and that fucking movie thinks Brandon Teena was a cis lesbian.

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  • Spector Hair Day @spectorhairday.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 22, 2024

    That joke did strike many as harsh, since one of the people to whom Norm Macdonald was referring was Brandon Teena, the trans man who was raped by John Lotter and Tom Nisse and who was the subject of the movie "Boys Don't Cry." Macdonald never apologized for this.

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  • Martin Z.ombie @pxtl.caBluesky · Nov 10, 2024

    As much as Norm's delivery of that line was amazing back in the day, the context of that image is awful: He's making fun of Brandon Teena, the trans man whose rape and murder was the basis for the movie "Boys Don't Cry".

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  • Audrey Beth Stein @audreybethstein.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 23, 2023

    I saw the title of your upcoming book BOYS DON'T FRY yesterday, and the first place my brain went was to the film BOYS DON'T CRY... which is very much *not* kidlit-territory... and then I realized that no one under 40 would have been old enough to see that film when it was in theaters (1999)!

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  • Schlockluster Video @schlocklustervideo.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 2, 2026

    On September 2, 1999, Boys Don't Cry was screened at the Venice Film Festival.

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  • Christopher McRed @redpandachris.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 10, 2026

    Exactly why I agree with you, and feel it's a beautiful framed episode, with a horrible ending, but in someways I feel that makes it more tangible, since we had cases like the movie Boys Don't Cry, and other Trans Visibility around the same time.

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  • Chain of Flowers @craigatcof.bsky.socialBluesky · Jun 2, 2026

    Correction: The Cure's Boys Don't Cry is used in new Masters of the Universe film.

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  • Lily @lilybaldwin220.bsky.socialBluesky · May 8, 2026

    That movie was so good! I was going to watch it again a few years ago, but just couldn't. It's one of those movies like " Boys Don't Cry" that once is enough+ you don't forget. 😭😱

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  • Velvet Glitterman @velvetglitterman.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 2, 2026

    From 2001, Ed presented classical radio in HK & Australia. He got Aus citizenship in 2010 & in 2014 wrote his 1st book 'Cadence: Travels with music - a memoir' abt cycling thru Pakistan. On that 2013 trip, he had a "total beam of light" moment watching Boys Don't Cry. He realised he was a man... 3/7

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  • MizGolightly @mizgolightly.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 23, 2025

    Choose one film each from 50 great directors. Name the film and director, with a still. 57/50 Film: Boys Don't Cry (1999) Director: Kimberly Peirce #filmsky #filmchallenge #films #classicfilms #movies #moviesky

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  • SuperGays Born On This Day @supergays-botd.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 12, 2025

    American trans murder victim Brandon Teena was BOTD in 1972. His gang rape and murder in 1993, aged 21, brought attention to hate crimes against trans people, inspiring the Oscar-winning 1999 film “Boys Don’t Cry”. #brandonteena #bornonthisday #trans #transhero #transmartyr #boysdontcry

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  • DouglasEboch @douglaseboch.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 16, 2025

    #WICKED FOR GOOD is a crowd pleaser! Got to see it last night with a Q&A with playwright and screenwriter Winnie Holzman and co screenwriter Dana Fox - bonus it was moderated by Kimberly Pierce who made BOYS DON'T CRY. It was so touching to see how proud and excited these writers are with this film.

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  • Brock CPCF @brockucpcf.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 5, 2025

    Today in Gender & Contemporary Cinema (FILM 3P98), Dr.Milliken is screening Boys Don't Cry (Kimberly Peirce, 1999). The students are reading about the debates around the film and the transgender body on screen. youtu.be/Ar9wGSd7KVQ?... #CPCF #BrockU #Transgenderforeverybody #film

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  • shanny8.bsky.social @shanny8.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 6, 2025

    Seen the movie, "Boys Don't Cry"

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