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You Hurt My Feelings

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A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book. From TMDB

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  • Rory Blank @roryblank.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 7, 2025

    I can't stop thinking about the trailer for the new Marvel movie referring to Florence Pugh, Sebastian Stan, and Julia Louis-Dreyfus respectively as the stars of Midsommar, A Different Man, and You Hurt My Feelings, like they're just some hot indie stars and not recurring Marvel actors.

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  • Morgan Jerkins @mjerkins.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 29, 2025

    A movie I really liked: "You Hurt My Feelings" on Netflix Highly recommend. May watch it again.

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  • a team of bumblebees @saramchenry.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 4, 2026

    Last night I was thinking I would love for Odenkirk's next move to be a sweet comedy like You Hurt My Feelings (Holofcener) or On the Rocks (Coppola). Can we PLEASE see him in a cashmere cardigan having a friendly argument at brunch

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  • Ken Jennings @kenjennings.bsky.socialBluesky · May 28, 2024

    Last year was pretty much just Talk to Me and You Hurt My Feelings, but we did get the all-time greatest TWO-sentence title. www.itsmemargaret.movie

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  • ακumα 💜 @akumapostsgames.bsky.socialBluesky · May 6, 2025

    HOW DARE YOU HURT MY FEELINGS HOYO

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  • 🎥 Kathy 📼 Fennessy 📽️ @kcfennessy.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 8, 2025

    For International Women's Day, I made a case, in my review of 2023's You Hurt My Feelings, for Nicole Holofcener as one of our best screenwriters--one of our best directors, too (and someone savvy enough to cast James Gandolfini as a romantic lead). siffblog2.blogspot.com/2023/05/juli...

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  • little miss no name @enterclevername.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 10, 2025

    Watching Enough Said to feel sad and then immediately watching You Hurt My Feelings to feel better. The Nicole Holofcener Therapeutic System ™️

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  • Jessica Ellis @baddestmamajama.bsky.socialBluesky · May 16, 2025

    I know everyone is citing VEEP, but she made a movie a couple years back called YOU HURT MY FEELINGS that’s a complete delight.

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  • Dana Stevens @thehighsign.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 22, 2023

    To close out the 1st round of Slate Movie Club 2023, @markharris.bsky.social dishes about the lessons to be learned from Barbenheimer & the twilight of the age of superheroes, along w/ a mini-valentine to the Nicole Holofcener/Julia Louis-Dreyfus joint You Hurt My Feelings. slate.com/culture/2023...

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  • Matt Bell @mdbell79.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 17, 2024

    Last night, I watched You Hurt My Feelings, which might be too realistic of a depiction of being a writer/professor…

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  • Benjamin Dreyer @bcdreyer.socialBluesky · Jun 8, 2024

    Speaking of which: I'm finally catching up with You Hurt My Feelings, and it's really amazing and wonderful and it's making me nauseous.

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  • Eduardo Roza: Gay, Nerd, Filmmaker 📽️ @eduardoroza.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 14, 2024

    Now Watching YOU HURT MY FEELINGS (2023) FilmSky 🎥

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  • Mark Harris @markharris.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 23, 2023

    Slate Movie Club, Part 5: Dana Stevens goes deeper on "the waning of superhero monoculture," and also on You Hurt My Feelings--we're both fans!--and Kelly Reichardt's Showing Up. slate.com/culture/2023...

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  • Jonathan Cohn @jonathancohn.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 29, 2024

    "You Hurt My Feelings" was great. Witty and well-acted, with Julia Louis-Dreyfus in the lead and a lot of recognizable faces. www.rogerebert.com/reviews/you-...

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  • Mark Harris @markharris.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 25, 2023

    Slate Movie Club, Part 7: @ezwrites.bsky.social takes us from You Hurt My Feelings and Showing Up to Beau is Afraid and asks me a difficult question! slate.com/culture/2023...

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  • Emily @emilyyour8.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 5, 2026

    Trump: I'M SUING YOU!! You hurt me financially!!! BBC: Oh, we hurt you financially? T: YES!!! B: Okay, let us see your finances to check the damage. T: ... B: We're waiting. T: I'M SUING YOU!! YOU HURT MY FEELINGS!!!

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  • Tariq, the Movie Critic @tarialle25.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 9, 2025

    #NowWatching You Hurt My Feelings on DVD. #FilmSky #Moviesky

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  • Esther Zuckerman @ezwrites.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 25, 2023

    Merry merry! For Slate Movie Club, I wrote about the movies I related to this year: Showing Up, You Hurt My Feelings, and, uh, Beau Is Afraid slate.com/culture/2023...

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  • Jacob T. Levy @jacobtlevy.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 26, 2023

    Year-end movie watching and catch-up season, ranked 1) The Holdovers 2) Dream Scenario [gap] 3) Poor Things 4) Air 5) You Hurt My Feelings 6) Blackberry 7) The Wonderful Story of Henry Sugar 8) Confess, Fletch 9) Maestro 10) Oppenheimer [gap] 11) May/ December

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  • Anti-Wife Equation @antiwifeequation.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 29, 2025

    Using "You Hurt My Feelings" to sell a Marvel movie is funny. Like, indicating "Yes, this too will be irrelevant and dull".

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  • Moss Elixir @sorryforlaughing.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 16, 2024

    Started the movie You Hurt My Feelings last night, thought “I do not give a single goddamn about any of these over-privileged morons,” turned it off. Lasted even less time with Me & You & Everyone We Know. Feel lately like I just need more (in the abstract sense) magic out of a film than all that.

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  • Rob Williams @robwilliams71.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 20, 2024

    Last night’s film - You Hurt My Feelings. Refreshing, grown up, non-hyperbolic relationship movie with one particular stunner of a piece of writing that was so low key it’d be easy to miss. Enjoyed it.

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  • Kate McKean @katemckean.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 24, 2023

    You Hurt My Feelings is the most romantic movie I’ve seen in years.

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  • Noel Dávila @noeldavila.netBluesky · Sep 3, 2023

    Watching “You Hurt My Feelings” (2023). 🎥 🎞️ #filmsky

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  • Zack Quaintance @zackquaintance.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 2, 2023

    this movie was so great, but warning, if you and your partner are both creatives large segments will feel like your exact life You Hurt My Feelings (2023) dir nicole holofcener

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  • RandyLittlesMovies @randylittlesmovies.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 21, 2026

    My ★★★ review of You Hurt My Feelings (2023) on @letterboxd: boxd.it/5Ts6JR)

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  • #447. . .Lacey @theninthflower.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 31, 2026

    evie PROVE TO THE PEOPLE YOU HURT MY FEELINGS THEN MAYA MAYA SAVE ME MAYAYAAYAYAUA MAYAAAAA

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  • Fred Shank @freddy3.bsky.socialBluesky · May 11, 2025

    Movies & shows I watched or finished this week, ranked: Aristotle & Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe🏳️‍🌈 The Righteous Gemstones S4🍿 Stranger Things S4🍿 The Four Seasons S1🍿 You Hurt My Feelings 🎥 Wicked Little Letters 🎥 #moviesky 🎥 #tvsky 📺 #bingeable🍿 #gaymovies 🏳️‍🌈 * rewatch; ~dropped

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  • Nancy Friedman @fritinancy.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 30, 2024

    1. Smoke Sauna Sisterhood (2023) 2. Movie Pass Movie Crash 3. Sasquatch Sunset 4. Carol Doda Topless at the Condor 5. You Hurt My Feelings (2023) 6. Perfect Days (2023) 7. Out of Sight (1998) 8. Bad Shabbos 9. Girls State 10. I Know Where I'm Going (1945) 11. The Apprentice 12. Tuesday 13. Homegrown

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  • Mollie Wilson O'Reilly @mollieoreilly.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 22, 2024

    Aha, when I first read this I thought you were talking about the 2023 Nicole Holofcener movie that I now realize was called YOU HURT MY FEELINGS. Also very good! Also strong performances! Maybe not "warped" though

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  • Mike McGranaghan @aisleseat.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 23, 2023

    Finally got to see YOU HURT MY FEELINGS today. Wow, what a terrific, funny movie. It goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway...Julia Louis-Dreyfus is one of the funniest people ever and we're lucky to have her.

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  • Tomato Like A Bus , @tomatolikeabus.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 23, 2023

    Watched: You Hurt My Feelings Review - White neurosis: the movie
Charming and fun though.
I cackled with the vengeance of a living marriage.

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  • 🚮 @freakinguseless.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 16, 2023

    reblogged a gifset of julia louis-dreyfus from 1994 and said "she's so hot" and in 1994, but also in 2023. i watched YOU HURT MY FEELINGS (good movie)!

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  • James Callan @scarequotes.comBluesky · Jul 12, 2023

    I watched You Hurt My Feelings and at one point, when Julia Louis-Dreyfus was walking down the street and reflected in a shop window, I thought it was unfair to the movie that I'd rewatched Chungking Express the night before. THAT'S a movie that makes cinema out of window reflections.

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  • I’ve Scene That! @scenethatreviews.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 25, 2025

    #NowWatching You Hurt My Feelings (2023) #Filmsky #A24 #Streaming

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  • Kyle Nolla @drpiggyphd.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 10, 2025

    TV: You Hurt My Feelings (Netflix) The first A24 film I didn’t like. Look, I actively live my life avoiding what the movie depicts: people lying to each other every single day to “be nice.” It also lacked satisfying commentary on being a creative. The humor was meh. Idk, this one was not for me.

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  • Al Shipley @alshipley.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 24, 2025

    Movie Diary - A Real Pain, You Hurt My Feelings, Sly Lives (aka The Burden of Black Genius), The Gorge, Slay, Longlegs, You're Cordially Invited, Fly Me To The Moon, etc. narrowcast.blogspot.com/2025/02/movi...

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  • Doug Moe @dougmoe.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 27, 2025

    YOU HURT MY FEELINGS is on Netflix now! Don't snooze - I'm in a couple of fun scenes. You will like this movie! www.netflix.com/title/81687143

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  • J @jen4787.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 27, 2025

    You Hurt My Feelings with Julia Louis-Dryfus. Good movie. I really can't guess what the point of this movie was supposed to be. It's up to you, the viewer. Quiet, interesting, watchable. #watching

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  • Anthony Strand @durwoodclapper.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 24, 2024

    4. You Hurt My Feelings (2023): I just watched this one this morning. It's rare to see a movie about a happy couple working through a problem and coming out okay on the other side. This one is refreshing!

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  • James Ostime @ostimejames.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 27, 2023

    LOVED: May/December Past Lives LIKED: Saltburn Barbie You Hurt My Feelings DIDN'T ENJOY: Maestro Leave The World Behind STILL TO SEE: Poor Things The Color Purple DESPERATE TO AVOID: Clooney Rowing Movie

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  • Maria T 🌹⛸🎸🍕🏄🏼‍♀️✨ @thisismari.atBluesky · Dec 23, 2023

    I think the biggest scam that was pulled off this year was making people believe "You Hurt My Feelings" was a good movie in any sense of the word

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  • Dr.Tits @developmentalcoach.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 16, 2023

    This is why You Hurt My Feelings might end up being my favorite movie of the year. Sweet simple story, and the married couple actually loved each other.

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  • Olga Zilberbourg @olgaz.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 12, 2023

    You Hurt My Feelings is a good writerly movie.

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  • Kristy Eldredge @el-kristy.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 7, 2023

    Last night’s movie: You Hurt My Feelings. A surprisingly anxious, downbeat take on the chattering classes, who here are depressed and self-questioning. I liked it.

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  • THE FUTURIST! @tfuturist.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 9, 2023

    That whole style is lost to the movie ether. It's a shame. However, felt that YOU HURT MY FEELINGS captured that good old NYC glow. The walks on the street, the apartments, book stores and just talking. Felt so great watching that movie and attributed a lot of the feeling to the visual comfort aura.

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  • Emi the Sweary Cook🌵 @undercoveremi.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 1, 2023

    37. You Hurt My Feelings (2023) What a lovely warm blanket of a movie. I loved this. It’s all about stalling out but it’s so kind. Strong recommend.

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  • Maria T 🌹⛸🎸🍕🏄🏼‍♀️✨ @thisismari.atBluesky · Jul 28, 2023

    You wanna be mad about a bad movie? Flip a table over YOU HURT MY FEELINGS, a visually drab exercise in solipsism. I am still angry that I sat in a theater for that! (Yes I am fully aware of how Holofcener films work and this one is like, fucking awful even for her)

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  • Nic Anstett @nicanstett.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 12, 2023

    I am so behind on this year's movies. Haven't seen Past Lives, Asteroid City, Nimona, Rye Lane, You Hurt My Feelings, Monica, How to Blow Up a Pipeline, A Thousand and One, and that's just the stuff that's out. Am I even a movie nerd anymore? Have I officially given up?

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  • Phil Edwards @PhilEdwardsMastodon · Mar 22, 2023

    Watch Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Tobias Menzies in the trailer for You Hurt My Feelings http://bit.ly/3JXwfwQ #YouHurtMyFeelings #NicoleHolofcener #JuliaLouisDreyfus #TobiasMenzies #trailer #film

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  • Gem Adler the TX 🔨 @gemadler.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 31, 2026

    I watched You Hurt My Feelings last night and its pretty gd great

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  • Movies • TV Shows & Physical Bluray Media 🍿 @movies-on-sale.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 20, 2026

    The (movie) You Hurt My Feelings 1080p (iTunes)(CA) C$4.99 (Comedy) (iMDB) 7.0 Cast: Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins, Arian Moayed, Owen Teague, Amber Tamblyn

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  • John Heisel @jheisel.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 3, 2026

    I rated You Hurt My Feelings (2023) 8/10 #IMDb

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  • Maria T 🌹⛸🎸🍕🏄🏼‍♀️✨ @thisismari.atBluesky · Jul 17, 2026

    The worst movie I've ever watched is YOU HURT MY FEELINGS. I've said it before on here. Couldn't walk out of the theater because I was with a friend so I had to sit through that piece of torture

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  • holdingtheclaws.bsky.social @holdingtheclaws.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 12, 2025

    You Hurt My Feelings was a super cute / funny movie, highly recommend 🍿

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  • Sara Marino @semarino326.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 4, 2025

    #justwatched You Hurt My Feelings www.paramountplus.com/movies/you-h...

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  • Movies • TV Shows & Physical Bluray Media 🍿 @movies-on-sale.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 16, 2025

    The (movie) You Hurt My Feelings (4K) (HD/HDX) is available today on (Vudu) (US) for $5 Cast: Tobias Menzies, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Arian Moayed, Amber Tamblyn, David Cross, Owen Teague Genre: (Comedy) Trailer & Reviews : www.rottentomatoes.com/m/you_hurt_m...

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  • Mike Sixel @sixelmike.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 2, 2025

    Movie review You Hurt My Feelings A very disfunctional group of people. But we liked them movie. You likely will.

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  • Kim @kfernwrites.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 27, 2025

    Watched "You Hurt My Feelings" on Netflix and went looking for the book it's based on; I'd love a deeper dive into the story. Sadly, it was written as a movie and there is no book. Sigh.

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  • sodio @sodio.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 21, 2025

    Watched 2023 movie "You Hurt My Feelings" with Julia Louis-Dreyfus. Not heavy on comedy, high on upper class white people problems, slice of life family drama with comedic tones. Kinda liked it

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